60 Pairs of Shoes, 60 Victims of Domestic Violence

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Special for the Armenian Weekly 

A pair of modest, worn-out pumps accompanied 31-year-old Inesa’s words: “My husband always says that I’m an absurd and useless woman.” Five years after 20-year-old Zaruhi Petrosyan was beaten to death by her husband, the Coalition to Stop Violence Against Women observed a National Day to Combat Domestic Violence in Yerevan’s Republic Square with a public display of 60 pairs of shoes, representing the victims of domestic violence since Zaruhi’s death on Oct. 1, 2010.

‘My husband always says I’m an absurd and useless woman.’ (Photo: Lara Aharonian)

For Lara Aharonian, the director of the Women’s Resource Center Armenia, Oct. 1 is a symbolic day—“[It is the day] we woke up with the news of a young woman killed after severe beatings,” she told the Armenian Weekly. “The death of Zaruhi affected everyone—she became the poster child of the fight against domestic violence. She was not the first but she was the one everyone talked about.”

‘Every evening I wait in fear for my husband to come home from work and start a fight.’ (Photo: Lara Aharonian)

In October 2010, the news of Zaruhi’s murder spread through Armenia and the diaspora. The brutality of her death, and the unwillingness of the police to assist her prior to her murder, shook the Armenian world.

“On that day we started our fight together as a coalition—we joined our efforts for the first time with seven NGOs to raise awareness, support the victims, and lobby for [the domestic violence] law,” said Aharonian.

Zaruhi was an orphan, neglected by society, her rights considered irrelevant by some. Those factors contributed to the perpetuation of the abuse she was subjected to. The law and society had failed her.

In the wake of Zaruhi’s murder, organizations advocating for women’s rights came together to form the umbrella group known as the Coalition to Stop Violence Against Women. The seven NGOs comprising it are the Women’s Resource Center; Women’s Support Center; Women’s Rights Center; Society Without Violence; PINK Armenia; Real World, Real People; and the Sexual Assault Crisis Center of Yerevan.

Sixty pairs of shoes in memory of 60 victims of domestic violence were placed in Republic Square (Photo: Lara Aharonian)

Coming together to form the coalition was “a kind of promise, a pledge to Zaruhi,” said Aharonian, adding that Oct. 1 became a day to remember Zaruhi, to reflect, and to renew the efforts needed to put an end to domestic violence.

And so, this year, the coalition placed 60 pairs of shoes in Yerevan’s Republic Square. Each pair was accompanied by the testimony of a real victim of domestic violence.

“He won’t let me leave the house alone… These walls are beginning to weigh down on me,” read one statement that accompanied a pair of tan suede boots.

“Every evening I wait in fear for my husband to come home from work and start a fight,” read the testimony of a 20-year-old woman named Yelena. Hers were strawberry-colored pointed shoes.

And then there were the pair of tiny pink shoes, and the words of 8-year-old Mariam, “I couldn’t study. Dad got angry, and struck me in the face. Blood came out my nose…”

A poster featuring the silhouette of a woman and a question mark read, “Who will be next?”

A poster featuring the silhouette of a woman and a question mark read, ‘Who will be next?’ (Photo: Lara Aharonian)

“We wanted to show how real people have suffered from domestic violence. So the empty shoes symbolize the life that is no more, the missing women. People were able to feel that absence, emptiness, and loss that the deceased leave behind. These were 60 shoes symbolically belonging to different women killed since the death of Zaruhi…showing that we need to do more, that we need to pass the law,” said Aharonian.

‘He wont let me leave the hosue alone…These walls are beginning to weigh down on me…’ (Photo: Lara Aharonian)

Between 2013 and 2015, more than 5,000 calls have been made to domestic violence hotlines operated by 3 NGOs, Susanna Vardanyan of the Women’s Rights Center was quoted as saying by MediaCenter.am, during a press conference held on Oct. 1.

Vardanyan noted that 30 women were killed as a result of domestic violence during that same period, leaving 45 children behind. During the first 9 months of this year, more than 2,000 cases of domestic violence were reported to the coalition. The police reported 535 cases of domestic violence this year, including cases of child abuse. According to the police department, there has been a decrease in the number of cases, as well as in the number of deaths resulting from domestic violence.

Yet, Lida Minasyan of the Society Without Violence stressed that the real number of domestic violence cases is much higher, if one considers that there are many instances where the abuse is not made public or reported. Women in rural areas, she said, are particularly vulnerable.

A passerby places flowers next to a pair of small, pink shoes (Photo: Coalition to Stop Violence Against Women)

Since Zaruhi’s murder, the coalition has fought hard to pass a domestic violence bill, so far to no avail. Currently, a draft bill is awaiting examination in the National Assembly. Activists say a separate domestic violence bill will acknowledge the crime and allocate financial and human resources, as well as services, to both prevent it and address the consequences. Such a law—which activists have advocated for around a decade—would encompass protection mechanisms, from restraining orders to police and judicial reforms, to effectively deal with the crime.

In the afternoon of Oct. 1, the coalition held a protest action in front of the government building, demanding passage of domestic violence legislation. In the evening, the organizers held a candle light vigil in memory of victims of abuse in Armenia and around the world.

Meanwhile, the reaction to the public shoe display showed the spectrum of attitudes to domestic violence in Armenia. According to Aharonian, the reaction from passersby varied. Some were supportive. “We had people getting emotional while reading the stories. Some even placed flowers on [the shoes],” said Aharonian. Others reacted aggressively by blaming the victims or justifying the abuse.


‘I couldn’t study. Dad got angry, and struck me in the face. Blood came out my nose…’ (Photo: Lara Aharonian)

Source: Armenian Weekly
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